He ended up cheating with one of the nurses and his wife left him. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. She's really attractive, too. Welcome to the future. At parties, they drink soda and play board games. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. But I also know that He loves us so much that He would never take away our ability to choose for ourselves. IMO he should've been up-front about that before beginning to date you, but, sounds like you're okay with it now that everything's clear.
Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. She won't look at anything "anti-mormon" but if it's on LDS. There have been times in the last three years that we have had to live paycheck to paycheck so the idea of a rich doctor is antiquated in most cases. We also had to move several times now and will move few more times. It would likely be seen as a trial in her life.
With the amount of hours they must study and work they are exhausted a lot. In my experience, life-long member, many Mormons have difficulty thinking outside the box, and putting forth effort to inclue and love. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from.
I found that it worked just as well. Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages. Just know what your getting into. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. I always feel like I am last. My husband is specialising in Urology.