Now Knowing your husband is surrounded by good looking women, makes you pray for them even harder. Lots of good hearty healthy food. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up.
I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort. Our first Christmas married I want you all to know that you are loved and appreciated. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. During "Netflix and chill" the other night, I noticed there was a documentary about mormons. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. If she says that the mission was the greatest experience and best two years of her life, any chance you have at a normal long-term healthy relationship is dim unless you convert.
I am the bitch who doesn't understand anything. Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. I feel like this pressure of finding a residency has already taken a toll in our relationship and somewhat "controlled" us for so long that I am already so tired of it. Think of every possible scenario you can think of.
We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. I would love to someday find myself sitting in the pew with you, sharing this amazing journey. I knew that when I met him. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. Her home time is exclusively for the kids and paper work. Find a good man first, one that you can trust and feel comfortable building a future with, and then worry about the profession later. It requires a special kind of patience, and I think that the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" has to be something you can relate to. Additionally, just as corporate cultures exist, so does it exist for every family.
