A lot of people are religious. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. My husband started a solo practice and the last few years have been very difficult on our marriage- financially as well as personally. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time. You might need to trade missionary lessons for research on her part, and we can suggest less scary resources. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years.
He has chosen to become a GP rather than an orthopeadic surgeon because that allows him to be home more. I've had a super hard time finding folks who understand what I am feeling I have been married to an orthopedic surgeon for 35 years. You've all been so helpful.
How do you really feel about that. All in good time, my dear. He's just wrapping up his first year. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville.
At the beginning of the relationship, which is not long ago, he use to carry out conversations, even while working. Love the way you normalize the challenges of being married. But can't he send me a text just once a day or every few days to let me know he's thinking of me. In many ways, you yield some authority to the church. I let people assume what they will. Since a very young age, these girls have gazed at handsome paintings of Jesus and prophets, and learned to respect men who have spiritual confidence in their eyes.